The thought of not being able to have children can cause a roller coaster of emotions from blaming yourself and thinking something's wrong with you to not knowing when to give up. The pressure to raise a family is huge, especially when it's something you desperately want. Trying to cope with the reality of how difficult and stressful it is can be near impossible. I know, you may not want to hear it but mental health professions have come up with strategies to coping with infertility that really works.